We refer to small talk as any chit-chat or just conversation,we don't put a lot of import on. When, in fact, small talk is a wonderful way of connecting,bonding, learning, growing. What makes it so challenging is the fact that we can't have a script so how to get good at small talk? Let's find out.
What is Small Talk?
Small talk is the casual chit-chat we have with others. It's not just filler conversation; it's a key way to connect and understand people better. It's like keeping a ball in the air in a game - you're working together to keep the conversation going.
How to Improve Your Small Talk Skill?
Improving takes times and efforts but I will show you some key aspect to look into and work on it.
1. Set the Right Goals
Be Interested, Not Interesting: Focus on being present in the conversation and showing genuine interest in the other person, rather than trying to impress them.
2. Learn to Pause
Give Yourself Time: It's okay to take a moment to think before you respond. This can lead to more meaningful contributions to the conversation.
Paraphrasing: Try repeating back what the other person said in your own words. This shows you're listening and helps clarify their point.
3. Ask Questions
Be Curious: If you're not sure what to say, ask the other person to elaborate. Simple phrases like "tell me more" can keep the conversation flowing.
4. Handle Mistakes
Embrace Imperfection: It's normal to make mistakes in conversation. Think of them as ‘missed takes’ - not failures, but opportunities to try again.
5. Keeping It Brief
Stay Concise: Avoid going on too long. Share your thoughts clearly and concisely.